Out in the Cold

Well dear readers things have not improved for the GrumpyEMT. Just when life seems its most cold and lonely it can always get worse. The one person I have always thought would be there to lend a supportive ear has up and disappeared from my life with no explanation. I understand we all have tough times and sometimes need to focus on ourselves. Thats life and as a man I understand this fact. What I do not understand is a total lack of communication. I was dumb enough to help this person solve their transportation issues by being a cosigner for them, Helped get them in a better housing situation, and helped find cash side jobs. Now their lack of fulltime regular employment is preventing the car payments from being made. Bad enough the insurance is in my name and I have to pay it cause its attached to my cars policy with a multi vehicle cheaper rate. The time for being kind and helpful is over. Caring about someone and putting myself out there is a losing proposition. If this person would just speak to me in some manner and let me know what is going on I would feel better having some knowledge of whats going on and could deal with the situation in a more positive fashion. Ugh life blows. MESSAGE ENDS